Performative Corporate Allyship

Say Gay (Sometimes)

The Corporate Playbook for Performative Queer Allyship

Lisa Fanning

September 5, 2023

Amanda started working in West Virginia public schools in 2019. She tried not to talk about her marriage. As a gay woman in a state that does little to protect LGBTQIA+ teachers, teaching in a public school was scary. Despite the frequency with which her coworkers discussed their spouses and marriages, Amanda avoided referencing her wife. When students asked, she’d ignore the question.

Many of Amanda’s coworkers supported her and were even kind to her; some would go out of their way to let her know they were allies. But she noticed some coworkers unfriending her on Facebook or becoming cold to her once they discovered her sexuality. Some coworkers even untagged themselves from her wedding photos, though only those photos that included Amanda and her wife.

“Signing up for insurance at work was interesting. I don’t think the woman working expected me to add my wife to the policy,” Amanda told me. After the Supreme Court’s 2015 ruling legalizing gay marriage in Obergefell v. Hodges, the school would not have been able to deny Amanda and her wife coverage. But the ruling didn’t stop the experience from being “extremely uncomfortable.”

There have been several landmark victories for LGBTQIA+ Americans in the last decade. A recent Supreme Court decision held that queer people can no longer be fired from their workplaces for their sexuality, and the right to marriage has allowed queer couples to access corresponding legal benefits. Many states, however, have not taken additional steps to protect queer constituents from discrimination.

These legal victories for queer Americans have not prevented conservatives and right-wing radicals from doing their best to make the lives of their LGBTQIA+ neighbors, coworkers, and constituents more difficult. The most recent legislative attack on queer Americans has come in the form of “Don’t Say Gay” laws. Don’t Say Gay laws make illegal “[c]lassroom instruction by school personnel or third parties on sexual orientation or gender identity.”

To be clear, there has been no evidence of such classroom instruction in Florida, where this law now governs. Governor Ron DeSantis and Florida conservatives are using this legislation to prevent teachers from discussing their own identities and the many ways people live their lives and love one another. In DeSantis’s own words, teaching kindergarten-aged kids that “they can be whatever they want to be” is “inappropriate.”

Parents and school administrators have so far used the legislation to force teachers to take down pride flags and remove books that reference queer and trans identities from their shelves. Some teachers have claimed that they’ve been told to remove photos of themselves with their spouses from their desks, lest students see them. And while the Supreme Court has made it unlawful to fire employees because they are queer, this law created a pathway to do so anyway, under the guise of protecting children from inappropriate material.

After the “Parental Rights in Education” bill was introduced in Florida, conservatives in many states—West Virginia included—rushed to do the same.

In states like West Virginia, where Amanda lives, queer teachers are already forced to moderate their personal expression due to the deeply unfriendly political environment. “Year after year, despite pressure from LGBTQ and other civil rights groups, West Virginia lawmakers have declined to write protections against gender and sexual identity discrimination into the state’s civil rights code.” In fact, there are multiple bills making their way through the state legislature that explicitly allow businesses to discriminate against queer patrons, and Governor Jim Justice is an outspoken opponent of allowing transgender children to participate on their gender’s sports teams.

For Amanda, “it was such a delicate situation to be in. I couldn’t give my own political opinion to these kids, but I also don’t want them to grow up with bigotry. How am I supposed to have a conversation with a parent who actively posts online that members of the LGBTQ+ community are child molesters?” After eventually leaving teaching to pursue a different career path, Amanda has felt huge relief.

“It was such a delicate situation to be in. I couldn’t give my own political opinion to these kids, but I also don’t want them to grow up with bigotry. How am I supposed to have a conversation with a parent who actively posts online that members of the LGBTQ+ community are child molesters?”

The codification of homophobia through Don’t Say Gay laws serves only to further stifle queer teachers and provide parents with a mechanism for suing those they will inevitable claim are violating the law. Already, an incident in southwest Florida has proven this eventuality. A middle school art teacher was fired “after she taught lessons about LGBTQ pride flags and came out to students as pansexual.”

Most Americans oppose anti-gay legislation, but a small and powerful minority of far-right politicians have campaigned on and popularized the rhetoric surrounding Don’t Say Gay. Funding those politicians are corporations that claim to support LGBTQIA+ rights.

Disney has been the primary corporation involved in the toxic dialogue surrounding “Don’t Say Gay” due to its heavy presence in Florida politics and its campaign donations to the Republican Party of Florida as well as GOP House and Senate campaigns. Disney’s donations to Republicans totaled more than a million dollars in the 2020 election alone.